Dear Friends, "Love in the heart was not meant
there to stay. Love is not love till
you give it away". For love to be ever
lasting and eternal every one should be
aware of the different stages of love
and know its significance.
Following are the different phases
through which you will travel in your
love life and only those who pass
it will have an endless love.
ATTRACTION
Attraction can be defined as something,
which is more than friendship and is a
step towards getting ready for a
relationship. Now attraction is
of two types:
Physical Attraction -
happens when your body reacts to
another person. Heart rate increases;
temperature rises, palms get sweaty;
stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc.
This is what will tell you that you are
ready for the first contact and also
whether you are comfortable in
the company of the other person.
Emotional Attraction -
develops next if the circumstances
are right. After being drawn to a person
physically, you then begin to come closer.
If you find you have things in common
-- hobbies, ideologies, career,
education, or some other common
ground -- then an emotional attraction
starts to form. Sometimes an emotional
attraction can occur even when a physical
attraction does not. And in this case,
the bond will be stronger between the
two who connect, since no preconceived
notions based on physical
appearance has occurred.
INTIMACY
Intimacy is something, which a person
experiences when you learn to trust and
believe your lover. It is a close
association with another person of
the deepest nature. You share you thoughts,
feelings, and dreams. You feel free
to discuss everything with this person
and you are absolutely comfortable in
his company. Thus intimacy develops
gradually. If you can't establish
intimacy with your partner,
your relationship
may work for a while, but is unlikely
to endure throughout the years. Intimacy
is actually the path to a true,
healthy and beautiful relationship.
ROMANCE
Romance is the essence of a relationship.
Without romance your love life will not exist.
Romance is the true identity of your love.
It brings out your true self and helps you
be a better lover, husband and partner.
Romance is a celebration of the life you
live as part of a couple. It springs
naturally and originates from within
your heart. It makes you do things that
you possibly couldn't have imagined to do
otherwise. It shows you who you are and
reminds you of the role you play in a
relationship. Romance is not responsibility
but it is caring about your responsibilities
towards your lover and partner.
Romance is the appreciation of two people
who are celebrating the lucky coincidence
that they found each other.
PASSION
The third stage is passion,
which basically means a desire for another
person, which has grown to an intensity
that can't be ignored. This is often where
an emotional relationship turns into
a physical relationship. The passion
stage is very important. For from here
you will understand the true meaning
and nature of your relationship.
If there is no passion then its best
to let go but if there is passion in
your relationship then it is time
to go on to the next stage.
COMMITMENT
The last stage is commitment.
This is when you know that you want to
spend your whole life with this person
you love and you can do anything for him..
It is when your whole world just revolves
round your lover and you take a pledge
to remain true to your mate throughout
good and bad times, be by his side
whenever he needs you.
eyes meet,
it is like a touch...
a spark...
------------ ----Attraction
the touch of the eyes
was as if,
it was...
------------------ Infatuation
the flame
of her body is felt,
his breath starts igniting...
------------------ Love
she touches him like a whisper,
as if silence is mixed in her eyes,
he prays, a little consciously,
a little unconsciously. ..
----------- ------ Reverence
he is entangled on her path,
entangled in her arms
love now turns to...
------------------ Worship
living is an obsession... .
dying is an obsession...
apart from this there is no peace...
------------------ Obsession
let him rest in the lap of death...
let him drown his body in her soul...
------------ ------ Death
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